Aligned Influence: Art of Gathering

We gather constantly throughout our lives – yet most of these moments are uninspiring, filled with ‘shoulds’ and not aligned with any sort of meaningful purpose.

From childhood birthday parties to workplace meetings, from family dinners to wedding receptions, we're always coming together with others. But how many of these gatherings actually leave us feeling energized, connected, or inspired? Honestly, probably not many.

The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker is one of the best books when it comes to reimagining what’s possible with events - I am constantly recommending it to everyone.

Priya makes a compelling case that most of our gatherings – whether it's that weekly team meeting or your friend's dinner party – have become stale, routine, and frankly, a bit soul-crushing. We go through the motions without really thinking about why we're gathering or what we hope to achieve.

Parker offers a refreshing perspective on how to transform any gathering into something meaningful. Her approach isn't about fancy decorations or expensive venues – it's about getting crystal clear on your purpose and creating genuine human connections. The strategies she shares are surprisingly simple, yet they can completely revolutionise how people experience your events.

What makes The Art of Gathering particularly valuable is its versatility. Whether you're planning a corporate retreat, hosting a book club, or organising a family reunion, Parker's insights apply across the board. She draws from real examples spanning everything from boardrooms to living rooms, making her advice both practical and relatable.

The book reads like a conversation with a wise friend who happens to be an expert on bringing people together. By the time you finish it, you'll never look at gatherings the same way again – and that's exactly the point.